Staying home versus working outside of the home

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The debate rages on about which is best for mothers, staying home to raise children or working outside of the home. For me, while I love my children more than anything, working outside the home was the best choice. Really, staying at home was never an option for me because my spouse is a teacher, and we just could not live on his salary alone. Many of my friends are stay-at-home moms, and I do not envy the hard work that they do every day. Raising kids certainly is not an easy task, but neither is the endless chores that come with watching children in your home: dishes, laundry, toys, cleaning, and more.

I recently read an article in the New York Post about how stay-at-home moms should earn $162K a year according to a survey. While I do not disagree about the value that these mothers bring to their families, I can’t help but think about working parents. Shouldn’t they also be valued the same as stay-at-home parents? In my case, I work full time and am also getting my master’s degree. I literally never stop, whether it be doing activities with my kids, working on projects for school, working in my office, or doing the daily life tasks such as cooking, cleaning, and laundry. I often feel defeated at the end of my 16-18-hour day. Equality for all parents, those staying home and those working, is what I am saying. What do you think? Let’s continue the conversation in the comments.  


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